Your November 2024 Newsletter

November 2024

Kia Ora

Many of our clients are preparing to relocate to New Zealand over the upcoming December/January period, arriving during the summer months.

Unfortunately, research shows that some international assignments struggle when families fail to settle in.

While we often share strategies for international candidates to support their partners, it's equally important to consider how to support children. Open communication, patience, and understanding are crucial for helping each child adjust and thrive in their new home.

Tips for relocating with children

Below we offer some ideas to help you navigate this journey together.

Involve the kids early on
Start involving your kids in the moving process right from the beginning. Talk about where you’re going and explore the new culture together. Ask them about their worries and excitement, and let them help decide things like their new room, activities they want to try, and even what the first meal in your new home should be. Getting them involved can make the whole transition smoother and more exciting!

Understand their perspectives
Kids have their own feelings about moving, and those can really vary. Some might be buzzing with excitement, while others may be sad about leaving friends and familiar places. Both reactions are totally valid! Acknowledge how they feel—enthusiasts can keep the vibe positive, while those who are more hesitant may help the family think through potential challenges. Giving them space to express their feelings will help them feel supported.

Create a sense of home
When moving to a new country, bringing along some familiar items can work wonders. Think about packing their favorite toys, books, or decorations to make the new place feel more like home. If the local food is different, consider packing a few beloved snacks or pantry staples, but check any restrictions on what can be brought in!

Encourage connections
Getting your kids involved in local activities is a great way to help them make new friends. Whether it’s sports, art classes, or community events, finding something they enjoy can help them connect with other kids and settle in faster. It’s normal for them to feel a bit shy at first, but building friendships takes time, and being around other kids can really help.

Lead by example
Your attitude can make a big difference for your kids. If you stay positive and calm, they’ll feel more secure and confident. Celebrate the little wins—like making a new friend or trying a new food. These moments can boost their confidence and add a bit of fun to the process.

Remember, patience is key! There will be ups and downs, but also plenty of new friendships and exciting experiences.

Did you know?

Many newcomers to Aotearoa New Zealand are surprised to learn that the country is made up of over 600 islands, not just the North and South Islands!

While not all of these islands are inhabited, many offer unique experiences. For example, you can check out the remote beauty of the Chatham Islands, known for their unique wildlife and rich Maori culture, or head to Waiheke Island, famous for its beautiful vineyards and beaches.
Each island has its own vibe, perfect for exploring hidden gems, enjoying local food, and soaking in stunning scenery.

Here are just a few..

Stewart Island
Often called New Zealand’s third island, Stewart Island is a remote paradise where humans are outnumbered by brown kiwis, with about 85% of the island protected in Rakiura National Park. It’s the best spot in the country for kiwi sightings, with nightly tours from Oban, the island's only settlement. With just 20 kilometres of sealed roads, Stewart Island is ideal for hiking!

Waiheke Island
Just a 40-minute ferry ride from Auckland, Waiheke Island is a local favourite known for its stunning beaches and wineries. Home to nearly 10,000 residents, the island boasts beautiful white-sand beaches and over 30 vineyards.
Beyond wine, Waiheke offers zip lining, kayak tours, two mountain bike trail networks, and 100 kilometres of walking trails.

Great Barrier Island
The sixth-largest island in New Zealand, Great Barrier (as locals call it) lies outside Auckland’s Hauraki Gulf and features stunning beaches, hot springs, old logging dams, and extensive walking tracks. Home to about 900 people, it’s completely off-grid and has no supermarket.
Great Barrier is one of just 18 International Dark Sky Sanctuaries, making it ideal for stargazing with telescopes set up on sand dunes. Popular with hikers, the island is 90 kilometers northeast of Auckland and accessible by a 30-minute flight.